Thanks everyone! I also read that 'hope' is not a plan. But we have to have 'hope' that something can be attained or that a goal can be reached before we are motivated to come up with a plan. Goals 1-9 on my list are my plan to get thought this process.

Thanks J3Bs for weighing in on that!

I do have some updated info that I've been wanting to post for a couple of days now. And I will have some more after this evening. I will catch everyone up either tonight or tomorrow.

Also, I am having a delay with all of my posts showing up, so I apologize to everyone if it doesn't seem like I am responding or that I have quite following any of you. Make sure to always go back and read back a few posts on your thread. Both delayed posts (like mine right now) and non-delayed posts appear on the thread based on the time of day that the poster put them up. The problem is that some of them don't actually appear for hours while others appear immediately. It's easy to miss replies if they are delayed. So, if I post something at 10 a.m., and member x posts something at 10:30... member x's post will show up immediately and mine might now show up for hours. You will have already read member x's post and no see mine bc you thought that you had read everything prior to 10:30 a.m.!

Sorry... rambling. Frustrated that my posts don't go up quickly.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce