Sitting in my house all alone...

[dixiegal]

Hi Navy,

I'm so sorry your going thru this...We all understand we are all on the same boat with you. In the past week, I have gotten somoe really good feedback. This board has helped me to vent and get out what I need to. Versus me calling H and telling him off. I understand, you beating yourself up for your mistakes. I do it too. I pushed so hard days before Christmas that my H walked right out it. I didnt see the progress the things he'd been saying the last few months...

But, I cant change the past and you cant either. Lets face it your W and my H share a piece of it also. So, you have to start reading those books over and over. I also lean on GOD TONS. It helps me stay focused...even when it feels like THIS IS IT he is REALLY gone.

The folks on this board...tell me hold on...no its not...dont give up now....you too...dont give up....HOLD ON...

But, 1st stop pushing, NO crying, begging, pleading, writing emails, letters...DO NOT SAY I love you....they hate that right now...it makes them feel worse/guilt which makes them run farther.

I know it hurts like He*L...but, stay focused on controling your emtions and actions right now...you have to show her a new side of you...calm very collected...no matter what hurtful things she says...

Praying for you Navy...always for us all!