Sitting in my house all alone...

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I wish I would have found this board when I was still in your stage. My wife had filed before I got here so much of my LRT time has been spent with her negotiating the split of assets. I still believe that I have a chance to save my marriage though I think the legal divorce is going to happen. Just know that she is out there thinking and hurting and if you give her time to get control of her emotions she might not want to run any more. I sent my wife the WAW video and I have no idea if she watched it or not but I know that it doesn't seem to have made a difference. All of the advice that I see on here says don't send it but then the women that post who were close to being WAW's say that a big reason they didn't go was because they found this sight. (But they say if they would have been shown the site by their H it wouldn't have worked...) such a catch 22.