tjack...are you trying to scare me. No, I know you have good intentions. Warning me.

We had a long talk last night about things. She doesn't work closely with the guy at all and she has said some negative things about him like "he's got his own issues going on."

But she basically said that she can't cut off all interactions with him to and continue in her career and in her words "She has to make this marriage." Also, the OM has no interest in leaving his wife (I know this because I saw his emails) Not to mention if there could be some professional repercussions if they got involved.

So with that. I've just decided to move forward as is. I let her know that if I found anything crossing a line, It would probably be over.

But if she totally messes up and hurts me in the end. You can be the first person to o say "I told you so." Deal?

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.