PEI, thanks. So if detachment is a feeling how do I get myself to feel that way. I've been reading way too much and I don't think there is anything specific on detaching.

I take back what I said in the other post about my every thought not being consumed with him, I was wrong. I think I'm a little better about it but still first thing when I wake up until I go to bed are thoughts of him. Mostly anger at what he has put the kids and myself through...they are really suffering.

Maybe someone can help point me in the right direction.

Me:32 H:32
M:9 T:15
D:4 S:2
OW/PA: JANUARY 10
ILYBINILWY AUGUST 10
Goes and Comes July/September
Moves out September
Sep. since Sept.