I have done everything wrong....

[Grocerykartman]

Do nothing. Go dark. I'm not saying this is always the way you should be, but for now, your frame of mind is too geared toward melting down and telling her you miss her, love her, don't want her to move out, etc....all the things she doesn't want to repsond to. Use this time to calm yourself, not repeat more of the same that has not worked.

When Monday/Tuesday comes around, you need to conduct your bill discussion in a calm, confident manner. This is an important discussion, a first things first kind of discussion. Do as best you can to not let your emotions get in the way of good sense here, you can easily do one of two things, both of which are bad. You can try to be the nice guy and end up stretching yourself too thin by offering or accepting to take care of more bills than you can afford. You can also be panicked/angry and try to not work out anything amicable, which is not good either. It would behoove both of you to tackle the bills as a team, and work out something you can both manage. I know that may sound much easier said than done, but you gotta try.

Maybe you can't do much for YOU right now, so don't feel presured to do so...just take whatever opportunity you can to do so. I wish you luck.