Shaves, I was just thinking about expanding on your "counter intuitive approach" and casting some doubt in her thinking. What do you think she would say if YOU found her a place to live? EG.. Hey W.. I was looking in the classifies this morning and I found a really nice place over on 2nd street. Wanna go check it out?..(all this acting excited for her move out).. You have to be strong on this one, and not get concerned on the outcome.... She WANTS to move anyways right? I guarantee she will question that decision once you are on board with it as well. Most people don't have the balls to say these kinds of things because they are so petrified by fear.... Worst case she moves... That's what she was going to do anyways... So by you finding her a place, you show how confident and strong you are... and it absolutely BUILDS respect because you are no longer scared to be without her.... It SHOWS how much you have changed...think about it.
