Just a thought, Mr GAG will never admit he was wrong or understands why or what he did! So no expectations on every hearing those freely given, but IMHO him saying what he'd said to his sister gave him the opportunity to say maybe he was wrong and although he wont say it word for word he was showing you maybe he knows!
Mr Rabbit has been back in the fold now for nearly a year, and now I can lead him to answer questions I need to hear.. like he missed me, he could have done things differently and there is a little healing in that but its not easy to do without sounding like needy rabbit again! I can also tease him like I did this morning and say things like "well I did explain that but you were in LLL at the time so you might not remember" and he now laughs and pulls a silly madman face..
Him asking to go the restaurant with you is a biggy, he effectively asked you to go on the date you mentioned!
On the physical side, be careful, cake eating is a big trap to get stuck in, so many get stuck in there and cant get out, one because they start to feel like a wife again and enjoy it and cant let go.. and H just keeps enjoying it and not moving on.. Two because once you start it you really have to have a time span when you are prepared to say "enoughs enough Im not a FWB I want more" and be prepared for them to scuttle of cos you really are just a FWB you didnt see it..
Dates of all sorts.. we need to find other ways to lure him out, obviously TT is good but as you said its getting predicatable, your bending over table move is good once or twice but H is gonna think over time not that old one again lol!
Making him feel special is really really really key, I cant emphasis this enough.. Its were I fell down big time.. Do you know I truly believe if I gave Mr Rabbit a cuddle very evening for an hour he'd be as happy as larry with just that.. its his big EN, we are so cuddly now its hilarious we never get anything done cos we are always snuggling and in winter its too warm to move.. might get some work done in spring and summer lol!
Keep at it GAG this is a real fishing expedition for you, keep reeling him in :-)
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