"But when you get to the bottom of it all ... where is the commitment you BOTH made? Are you following my lead?"
Yes.. I am following.
Let me be clear in that I am not attracted to my wife anymore.
This is absolutely an emotional response.
She has even said the words I feel like I have grown and you have not.
Not sure I totally agree with her.. but I understand why she said it.
This is not really deja vu.
We are in the same place.. but I "see" much different thought's.
I could walk away (Hand over the papers on the porch) right now.
But I still question if that is really the best choice.
I could "Do Something Different" and get my own place and move on with my life.
Honestly "by the book" it would be a perfect example of LRT.
But I still question if that is really the best choice.
Lets be clear.. If one of us "leaves" it is done. I told myself if I ever found myself here again that was it. I say that only because "no one" has been "forced" to leave. I am OK with the slow movement. It is easier for me to "see" things.
So FB2.. where do you want to "lead" to now?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
