I am bit confused here Harrier. By my best accounts of what I read in your sitch, it sounds like things are going pretty darn well for you right now. Granted, I am not and have never dealt w/ my W having an EA, but at some point, I think your instincts to trust her will serve you well. I can completely understand the temptation to check up on her, but unless I am missing something it doesn't sound like this R w/ this OM should be that threatening to you. In comparison to some of the other sitches I read about here, your W is an angel in comparison.


M42
W38
D5D7
M8
Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10
Moved out 1-7-11
FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11