UPDATE 8pm

My wife knocks on my room door (again) and tells me that she's deposited her loan money into a new account of her own. My wife wants to set up a time to discuss how to split the bills, et al. She also wants to continue discussion on how much to pay me for housekeeping "services".

I have a couple of questions:

1. Do I now take my wife's name off our current joint account? Or not a good idea?
2. Do I still refuse being paid for something I feel is principally wrong? Besides, it doesn't make any sense - she's paying me with her loan money to help pay for OUR bills.

I have a deep pocket for all y'all's 2 cents. Thanks in advance.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112