Sitting in my house all alone...

[Truegritter]

Navy

Welcome to these boards.

Some of what is happening is your fault. Stuff you should own and change if you care to.

What stuff?

Her complaints that hit home. The ones that sting you should look at.

My first thing to you is it took a while to get to where you are in the M and it won't be fixed over night.

This takes a lot of patience.

The good thing is you are here and there are some great people here to help you.

she had a very emotionally/physically abusive father.

The gift that keeps on giving...

Childhood trauma comes back in adulthood.

I am not a health professional but be prepared that she may be dealing with some demons you didn't create and you can't fix.

Keep posting and some folks will be by to provide support.

Weekends are slow though...