You have my utmost sympathy. Seems you are in the car of ahead of me but on the same ride.
Frankly from the last few days and postings on MLC I've read, all we can do is hang the heck on, fasten our safety belts, and detach.
I will direct you the thread started by me entitled Someone Suggest H is having MLC....I don't know? Here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showthreaded&Number=2121924#Post2121924

One of the first posts has a resource list on MLC by Cadet to get you started. I'm not through all of it, but steadily working through it as I can.

I'll hold your hand and we can both scream.

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Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
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