I intend to live forever - so far, so good

[awest1217]

You responded well and you do sound better. With the girls, does IL have a mandatory counselling for them? I ask because if S was 4 or older he would have to go to counseling for the D to go through. It sounds like they need a 3rd party to help them understand that you are both always their family, but you and STBXW are the only ones not family anymore. .