You say your wife's complaints are all over the place, some of them have merit and some of them don't. In that statement COULD lie some of the problem. Maybe not, but you might be judging her complaints, and she may feel that you don't cherish her feelings. What specifically were they?
And then--what were your patterns of interaction when you were in love, and what were they when you were breaking up?
The only thing I see is the passiveness over where to go to eat.
I'm understanding this more and more... How can I validate her concerns from the place that I am now? Do I have to just wait for the opportunity?
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