Someone suggest H is having a MLC....I don't know?

[Queen_of_Swords]

Thank you for this post. I have some inkling of what's going on with H. Truthfully the toolkit that I inherited and learned to handle life wasn't optimal either...hence the five year program I embarked on.

Damaged and abused people tend to pick other damaged and abused people that shore up their weaknesses and deficiencies, and I know that.

I have the greatest empathy for my H, knowing his history, his behavioural patterns and I know ( although I have a hard time really understanding it viscerally) he is in pain too. That's his work. I just hope the Divine decides to swat him with a clue by four sooner than later, for our children's sake at least.