Harrier my take is a bit different than SBH's...although I totally support his trust but verify approach. My difference was that she knew I was going to do it.
Rebuilding trust seemed to me that I needed to be honest with her as well.
But different situations, my shoes don't fit SBH's feet and his don't fit mine.
What would you do?
Did you lay down a boundary? If you did now you have to live up to the consequences of it.
I'm all for boundaries but only when the LBS is able to handle the consequences of them.
My question for you Harrier, is have you found something out, or just planning for the worst? Because if you're looking a donut and all you see is the hole...maybe you need to change your view.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
