While you cannot teach them how to be a father or husband, you can show them what they should be looking for in a wife and mother. You're their template for that. He bailed, you don't have to yet.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK