Ahhh good I'm glad that there isn't some deep rooted self esteem issues.
If your H is in an MLC then you already have enough self esteem hits going on.
Being an LBS is a test of yourself, pretty sure none of the posters who are posting to you would say they wished they never had been tested. As strange as that sounds.
They are not being obtuse or overly critical. Many have been where you are, listen with an open ear.
And no one wants to live that way either. Not asking you too, just asking to give it your best shot.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
