I have done everything wrong....

[islander]

Grocery,
Thanks for your initial response. My first post was not clear. My W had my D mother arrested which I fully supported. It just added to the fire, and she tried to make things harder with me and my D. It was mostly petty stuff and would have been ok to ignore for the most part. Not all of it though. But my W wanted me to pursue everything that she did that was wrong. It just became stressful bc she wanted to play the game with her right back.

And I only got one letter and one card from her. If it was that bad all she had to do was make an MC appt and I would have went. She bought a book which I should have taken seriously at that point, but with everything going on it took a back seat. She was not to concerned about ML or did not seem to be. I was not happy about it but did not make an effort either. I can't blame her for that. My fault.

She never relayed how bad things were for her. How unhappy she was. We would spend time together. We still had fun. But we also had crazy work schedules, kids to take care of, homework and chores to do. We had family responsibilities and I took those seriously. I should have worked a little less and played a little more. I know that now.

All of this is almost irrelevant, but I just wanted to be a little more clear with my original post. I need help. I don't know if she will come back. She said again today she thought she was done....that we had drifted too far apart and she was moving on. I don't know what to do with that. She really acts like she is done. I asked her if she knew for sure that she wasn't coming back, and she said not anytime soon. She is not consistent, but may be saying that to appease me.