Wanda, the longer and more intense you can keep this up, the sooner this so-called mother-child cycle can cease. Hopefully your husband will suddenly realize that he's not married to a/his mom, and stop acting out like a kid.

I am guilty of putting my wife through that.

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112