Originally Posted By: Scylla
I am still willing to work, but not to the point where I become a shell of myself, running only to stay in place and gaining no ground.


I ask the question because YOU deserve the answer.

Your answer.

What Jimbo said is HIS answer. (heya Jimbo)

My answer? I found out the most amazing things about love by choosing not to let what my spouse chooses right now define me, my M or my love for her.

Quid pro quo? Great legal theory but this life. This is love.

Will you only give what you get?

Scylla we all are challenging you here as we were challenged.

It is the only way to grow.

If you dig back far enough on these boards you will see when I got here and how angry I was.

You can do this AND it is worth doing.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am