he said that "in his mind, he had waited long enough for me to figure out what he needed/wanted in the marriage." I would say "why could you not tell me?" He would reply "You're my wife. You should know me well enough that I don't have to tell you. You should be able to figure it out."
NO LIE.
This from a man who I am sure told you all the time he couldn't read your mind!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.