I think it was TimeHeals who said Hope is not a plan.

And it is not.

Its not a bad thing to have hope, it's what will keep you going, your ace in the hole even when you curse it. But yes, its not something to hang your plan upon.

Maintaining hope is not a bad goal, just don't let it drive the car. : )



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet