I try keeping my cell in a different room than I am in. That way if I have a silly urge to text something I really have to think about what i am doing as I go find the phone.

What Grocery has said is definately the better way to be thinking. Just sometimes we need to figure out a way to stop ourselves from sending the mushy texts. Once you get used to thinking twice about what you are about to do, it gets easier.

I don't know if that makes sense or not. Keep DBing!!

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007