I am glad I stopped by your thread today to read up. I find myself doing the same things you are. I need to work on slowing my mind down and looking at my W's actions and not my insecurities.
Best of luck to you in dealing with the deamons so to speak.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10