I see how that makes sense, I do feel like I have still come a long way wit detaching. My every thought is no longer consumed with him. I still have a long ways to go and I guess I will go at my own pace.
You are right about the talks with SIL, I have tried to have less communication with her as all we end up talking about is H. I do want to hear things and at the same time all they do is really hurt. She has attributed to many blow outs between myself and H. She mentions how he is always on the phone with her and very nice and she knows it couldn't possibly be me he's talking to! I find it very disrespectful IMO for him to do that and for her to allow this. He is still married and the least he can do is be more private about her.
Anyways, on to me. Detach and GAL...that's what I'll be working on.
Me:32 H:32 M:9 T:15 D:4 S:2 OW/PA: JANUARY 10 ILYBINILWY AUGUST 10 Goes and Comes July/September Moves out September Sep. since Sept.
