I thought about that today too. Since I'm not sure where I am - piecing or what - I don't know. Our first Valentine's Day (been dating about 10 months), I went all out. He took me out to dinner and got me roses but I also romanced him. I got roses for the bedroom, in several different vases around the room. Fake petals for the floor and bed (because real ones stain). A helium tank (Wal-Mart or Target) and 50 red, pink and white balloons floating on the ceiling tied to strings hanging down in various lengths. At the end of the strings are hearts made out of pink, red and white construction paper floating around the room. Each one with either a photo of us as a couple or a saying like "Be Mine", "Yours Only", etc. H said no one had ever made that much effort for him, he really appreciated it. I thought about recreating that... remind him of us dating and that I do love and appreciate him and all our photos of our life together around him. It may be too much at this point or what's needed to pull him back in. I don't know. But throwing that idea out for me and the others piecing if you need a really romantic idea.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
