MLC questions- detaching and scared!!

[peacetoday]

September
Sorry for your pain
we have been there and we know how hard this is
a few suggestions and ideas
You did fine..telling him ytou were ok with the seperation
He is going to do what he wants with or without your permission
now its time to let go and take care of you
therapy is very helpful
reading
spirituality
finding a support group or talking to women who have gone thru this and there are a lot of them out there
make sure you watch the finanaces credit cards ect
they spent a lot and will go into debt in MLC easily
I saw a lawyer early on not to file but just for advice
My xh also took money out of joint bank accounts ect so be cautious
any interactions with H
make pleasant
no nagging
no r talks
no crying begging ect
try to support him and create a friedship and at the same time create new friends and activites for u
MLC Takes a long time and you will not know at this point what he will do
so let him find his way and you find yours
we are here for u
peace