I understand what to do. I really do. I don't always agree on this, but my question is not what to do, it's how you do it.
Things like giving space, helping around the house/taking care of kdis are easy to do. (Actually I didn't help more around the house/take care of kids because it was already a 50-50 split)
I know one way you handle things is you vent on here, but I can't believe that you never got mad or upset in person during the process. Did you have a technique for not letting it show or come out other than just not letting it? That's the kinda things I'm looking for.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.