Wow my response was to a whole bunch of posts ago. Now I've read the rest of the thread and want to say: PEI "get rid of the buttons" is brilliant and that's going to stick with me.

I noticed that you hate the idea of the desert island because you need people--and "old me" loved the idea of the desert island because I liked being alone!!! Then I read what Beatrice said and it makes perfect sense: when I have gone out and just been more open to people (honestly people what I call flirting, if you could see me, would not look like flirting at all but just normal friendliness, that's how backward I am), that's a stretch for me that I am learning to like. Becoming more extroverted.

So for you, TAMF, if every fiber of you is hating the idea of introversion, maybe it would help to resist your extroverted urges here and there and do the opposite.

I think this brings us more in balance.


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