Tamf, you have had tough but terrific advice. Do you honestly believe it is worse for you than the rest of the good people here???

Anyway, if you are a screaming extrovert you might like to read some of Dorothy Rowe's work. She believes that while all of us are by nature either introvert or extrovert, our task as we mature is to develop the other side of us. SO introverts need to develop their extrovert side, and extroverts vice versa. Sounds like you are resisting this with all your might!! As so many old timers have said - this is our chance to change and to grow.

If you go on doing the same you go on getting the same. Do you really and truly want to spend the rest of your life ruled by your sex drive??