Look it is okay to get pissed off at your H. The issue I see is that you continue to respond to him in a manner that has an EXPECTATION that...
1) He gives a chit and will respond the way you want him to 2) Your response will wake his as* up 3) Your response will guilt his as* to come home
Honestly, TAMF....if he text why respond. Ask yourself what you hoped to accomplish with your response.
Next time - do better.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans