maybe you guys can help me through this. The W left to go back to her hometown yesterday. She had this planned for about 2 months and initially used it to see friends. She had a 20 year reunion this past summer that she didn't go to.
Well, she started texting an old friend the middle of last month. And the texts have gotten out of hand. I'm talking hundreds a day. She has always told me about them and assures me that this is a friend and that he's more like a chick than anything. Still, I don't like it and I told her about her texting instead of hanging out with the family and my daughters.
She stopped doing it in front of us but didn't stop texting. I saw the records and saw just how many texts there were. It made me want to throw up. I called her sister and was SURE there was an A going on. Her sister won't put up with that and called her out on it. The W got super mad. She's never been so mad. I was checking up on her and she insisted that he was a friend. She said he's not her type and that she wasn't attracted to him.
Well, now she is where he lives. The trip was planned a few months ago like I said but was it only to see him? I'm not sure. I've been checking the texts and they have been non-stop. She had a layover that was delayed. Instead of texting me, her H, she texted this guy - for almost the entire delay.
To top things off, she is going out tonight with a few friends, him included. She has even hinted that he may be the only one.
Am I going crazy paranoid?
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
