"whoops" is an accident. Your response to him was no accident.
Originally Posted By: TAMF
Should have ignored him, ignored his text, but GD I am pissed.
OH ... so you were PISSED. So it's ok then. NOT. TAMF, I know you know this, but I'm gonna say it anyway. You are the only one responsible for your reactions and responses. DB is not for the feint of heart, it's a way of life ... of communication ... a state of emotional wholeness.
Your H can't push buttons you don't have.
Get rid of the buttons.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
