Everytime we have all done things as a family she is really uncomfortable.
Do you guilt her in to joining or does she feel obligated to go with you? I guess it probably depends what the activity is...
Uhhhh, this whole thing is so complicated. We all want to detach, because I think we all see at least the sitch do not get worse when you detach. At same time, we don't want them to take it as the fact that we've bought into their insane plan. (Please note I erased insane, and then put it back because I know someone is going to tell me it's wrong - but the reality is I don't see how someone "walking away" from a R that has consumed half of your life without doing everything you can do to ensure it's the right thing to do - is...well insane in my mind.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
