OUCH, so this afternoon, wife picks me up from work we swing by grocery store on the way home. While there, I mentioned to her that 2 other couples we occasionally hang with were going out tonight. She then told me our son was having a sleepover and she could not go out but I could. I said no it would not feel right being out with 2 other couples and not having her. She said why, we are not a couple. (SHOCKED) I said what are you talking about yes we are. She did not respond but it hit deep and hard. I stuck to my guns although the drive home was difficult to say the least.

But I kept my mouth shut and sucked it up. I am sure she could tell I was upset/hurt but never said anything about it. So here I sit 2 hours later and I had to get it out. I hope someone reads this today because I certainly need some words of wisdom right now.

So my son and friend are gaming and daughter and wife are in the same room just laughing along, having fun. So I used this as my opportunity to come up here hop online and post this chaos I cal Friday!


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out