The best advice that I can give you is the same advice that was given to me.
You are never more vulnerable then when you are a LBS. Never.
You've been chit on You've been told that you were the devil reincarnated You've been dumped You've lost intamacy You've lost your self confidence You've lost your partner You've been betrayed
So the big question we all should ask ourselves is....
Who or what fixes all of the issues and problems that we are now faced with?
IMO, it is up to US to address these problems. Easy? No f*cking way. So we really do have two options....
Work on ourselves and really address some of our own fears and insecurities OR
Run from them.
Running can be performed in many ways.
We could lie to ourselves We could run into the arms of another We could latch on to our next codependant relationship
OR
We could do what is probably the hardest thing to do, which is fix ourselves by ourselves.
Good luck TAMF - do what YOU think YOU need to do. Just realize that with every action is a reaction. With every cause is an effect. So make sure the actions and causes end with the reaction and effect that you really want.
Back to my hole I go.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
