Not sure if you understood the subject, but I'm talking about Valentine's Day. I'm starting to see a lot of advertising and it's contributing to my crappy feelings.
It was never a huge day in our relationship, but I also took it as an oppurtunity to buy my W something frilly that I'd be lucky if she'd wear once. I also figured it was a good way to show her that I believe she is sexy.
So this year will be different. I'm not sure at this point if I'll do anything specifically for the W, obviously something very simple - possible just to show I'm still in this.
I've been starting to think that I'll spend my energy doing something "cute" for all of my girls and put the attention on them for the day. Good way to continue to show my W that I am thoughtful, considerate, and a good father.
Anyone else have any thoughts about this?
What about any of you that do not have kids? How do you plan to spend the day?
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Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011