Piecing is quite different from the previous stage. Why don't you try posting in the piecing forum and see what sort of advice you get there.

Personally, I have found that piecing goes on forever in order to keep your M healthy and also it is something you BOTH have to be actively participating in....it is not a one person thing IMO.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength