still lost and still searching 2

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Great job, Tank! You put her needs first, showed her you're there when times are hard (why didn't OM care enough to take her to the funeral??? She's most likely asking herself that). She introduced you as her H - that's a good thing. She could've said XH, or just your name, but didn't. Great job with the kids too.

Looks like you're doing everything right under the circumstances.