Harrier, don't kick yourself. You must be doing something right if she's piecing and optimistic!!! Your goals look great but "no fights for a week" doesn't sound unrealistic or vague at all. They are focused, something you can clearly accomplish.
What are you getting overwhelmed with exactly?
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11