Holy cow you guys are so RIGHT. I am trying very hard to keep positive right now. H is doing exactly what you said he would MrBond.

H bought us a laptop for xmas this year and he wants it back. I have told him he can have it back at a later date because right now it is my only source for finding more work. He knows this. He says he needs it for his resume and I am preventing him from getting a job. I offered him the other computer that I can't get internet on but is fully functional for his resume and he says I will just go buy another one. Then he asks for the papers to the van. It is in his name and I have no insurance on it as of yesterday. This is just a game and he is HITTING BELOW THE BELT!

Thank you so much for your thoughts and advice Scylla and MrBond.
It really helps when things are looking so crappy.

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007