MrBond, I have no idea what you mean by rollercoaster. My W has been exactly the same, day after day after day. If you could watch a replay of everyday for the last 4 months, you could not tell the difference in any of them, other than she changed her clothes. This is why I noticed the change last night.
I do not go out for me. I don't want to go out. I want to be at home with my family. The only reason I went out was to try and change things up a little, give her the house to herself. Something has to happen sometime. I know 4 months is not that long of a time, but I think there needs to be some kind of steps made forward, doesn't there? Some baby steps?
Well anyway, the changes I saw last night, and now this morning she is also cold, are the first changes I have seen, ever. So I come here to ask about it and I just get the same answers I always do, it is just my expectations. Bulls**t. I had none. No offense.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair