This all makes me feel like some "lay away package" that may or may not be picked up. The roles have reversed in my situation. It seems like it is painful for him to now be around my house and me. In the beginning, I could not get him to stop coming by the house and flaunting OW in my face. Lots of mixed signals. I just have to keep moving on.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11