JTB, thanks for the suggestion on the game, i will look for it this weekend. I am really do well with this new me. I am feeling a lot better about myself and my kids and i are living.
LIS, thanks for the support. I dont have a lot of time these days, as you can tell by my lack of posts. How are you doing?
This week has been busy. My wife's grandmother passed away and the funeral was yesterday. I drove my MIL, my wife, and her father to the funeral. Her father is an alcoholic who she hasnt had a lot to do with in her life. He has become sober and has reached out to her and my MIL and me and MIL and I are trying for him. His entire family is alcoholics so there is no wupport.
He asked me to take him to the funeral, My wife wasnt even going to go, but her mom talked her into it. At the funeral, my wife was very upset and shaking and crying. I really didnt know what to do. I touched her arm and asked if she needed anything and i then just rubbed her shoulders and back. kept it simple so she knew i was there.
She introduced me to her family as her husband, and answered all the usual questions about our family and where we live etc. as if everything was normal. That hurt me a little, but i didnt show it.
The four of us actually went into her dads apartment for a couple of hours for coffee after the funeral. It was a sad day but for me a good one. Her dad asked her if she rented where she was living and her comment to that question was, im just staying there.
When i was dropping her off to the OM house, I asked her if the kids were to visit Mema's and papa's this weekend, would she like to spend some time with there with them. She said yes and thankyou.
I told her to have a good night and if she needed anything to call me.
