BIG NEWS IN MY SITCH - HUGE

[AntoniaB]

I wonder if the curiosity is kind of like the reverse of the situation we find ourselves in back in the beginning after the bomb where we have this sort of need to ask questions even though the answers hurt us? My H did say that he doesn't want to know at all if I am ever in a rel, and I said "if you're over me and don't think of me romantically, why would you care?" He just said "well I don't want to be thinking, 'who's that jerk, who does he think he is?"

Can you believe that? Considering what he is doing? That's just insanity. Ok for him to move on, but not me. I think the same is happening with you.