Oops, forgot one thing. The B.I.T.S. team is right and I will abide by your instructions. I am not going to do the thing about reminding her about this being her last visit. After listening to you guys, I realize that is counter-productive and will really serve no purpose other than me being caddy. She has probably already come to this conclusion and pointing out to her will only seem vindictive. Not to mention, I spent last weekend taking every picture of us down throughout the house. There is not one photo of her anywhere in the house. I boxed all the wedding photos and put them in the closet. I think that will plenty enough shock for her for one day.

So, instead of my original plan, I am going to do this. I am going to hug her and say, "Well, you know where I am if you need anything. Please don't hesitate to ask. I still care about your well-being and I don't want to see you go without to the point that it might cause you any kind of pain. I hope you can find happiness and piece of mind in your new place." Then I will see her off.

I like this plan much better.

B.I.T.S.

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...