W Left almost 3 months ago

[FellOnBlackDays]

2step,
You did great and I congratulate you!! If you have been reading my sitch, I have had the pleasure of the same kind of thing over the past couple of weeks. My W is kind, seems to stay on the phone longer than necessary and seems to always compliment me on my demeanor and kindness. Tonight when she called, she did something she has not done in a long time. She told me she wanted to discuss a couple of things. To test her, I told her I was very tired from work and was heading to bed soon. She agreed and told me her points. But then, something interesting happened. She said, "Dang it, I know there is something else that I needed to tell you. What was it? Hmm, what was it." I said nothing. I wanted to see how long she would keep this up. This went on for almost a full minute. I think she didn't want to get off the phone.

So, keep it up my friend. The things you said tonight were dead on. You are blowing her mind right now, buddy. You are taking control and planting the seed of doubt in her mind. Remember, it is just a seed right now and may not bare fruit for weeks or months. But that bad boy is planted. Goal #1 accomplished on your part!!! You see, when you signed those papers and sent them back, you took control. She probably banked that you would never send them back or fight her on it. Signing them has completely disrupted her perfect little plan that she had all worked out in her head.

CONGRATULATIONS on a job well done! Keep us posted!

B.I.T.S.

FOBD