Originally Posted By: FellOnBlackDays
Why am I so untrustworthy of a woman that I would have protected with my life for 15 years??


Easy FOBD... your W, like all of our's, is betraying you and the vows that you made when you got M. How can we trust them right now. Either they are not the people who we thought they were, OR, they are having a bout of temporary insanity. I prefer to believe the latter.

Originally Posted By: FellOnBlackDays
Team, hang in there with me. You guys and my family are just about all I have right now. I am not being melodramatic, I mean it. I can't talk to my friends anymore. Most of them are still married to their first spouses and have recently had children. When I try to talk with them, they seem uncomfortable and I stop. Here, I can cry, vent, think aloud and no one will judge.


Ditto. I don't talk to my friends or family about it much anymore either. They haven't walked the mile over the past couple of months in my shoes, as I, and each of you, have.

Let us know how it goes FOBD. Remember, the sun will come up the next day and you WILL continue to be strong and DB!

BITS!
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce